Love, sex, feminism and cats

MOVING

2010-06-30T14:40:00.001-04:00

I'm in the process of moving everything to my new blog: http://elodieonlove.com/. All my posts have been copied over, and that's where all my new posts will be, so find me there!

Last night

2010-06-28T13:25:00.000-04:00

My fiance and I had vanilla sex for once. I asked for the light to be turned off (again, for once), and he turned it off. Our room became totally dark. He then said, "I can't see anything. This is somewhat difficult." I replied, "is it that bad? I like it, we can just concentrate on how we feel." He didn't say anything to that, but he seemed to agree with me. After a bit, he said, "one of

Please Find or Make Me This Porn

2010-06-27T18:23:00.002-04:00

I've changed sites. Click here to read this post on elodieonlove.com. I need a porn, consisting of one woman and one man (so I can pretend to be the woman) in which: 1) The people are really and truly enjoying themselves. 2) The woman receives at least as much oral sex as the man. I love dicks, but I'm sick of them being the sexual focus of everything. 2a) No choking on dicks. I keep

Multi-Position Beaded Silk Rope Review for Vibrator.com

2010-06-26T19:08:00.001-04:00

I have moved sites. Click here to read this review at my new site, elodieonlove.com. K and I are trying to build our bondage collection, so I was quite happy when Vibrator.com offered me the chance to review the Fetish Fantasy Series Multi Position Beaded Silk Rope. The packaging has pictures of a scantily clad woman making faux "sexy" faces, but I wasn't going to let that bias me against the

Pleasurists #83

2010-06-23T11:51:00.002-04:00

Shy7734 by `Pelicanh Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. For updates and information follow our RSS Feed and Twitter. Did you miss Pleasurists #82? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #84? Be sure to read our submission guidelines and then use our submission form and submit it before Sunday

e-lust #16

2010-06-23T11:48:00.001-04:00

Photo courtesy of Janie Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #17? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar and subscribe to the

Pink Medium Rubber Whip Review for Babeland Toys

2010-06-22T20:50:00.001-04:00

I have moved sites. Click here to read this review at elodieonlove.com. K and I aren't experts when it comes to flogging. The Pink Medium Rubber Whip that Babeland sent me to review is only our third flogger. I worried that the pink color would detract from the experience when K wielded it, though he doesn't care a bit. As gender-savvy as I like to think I am, I still subconsciously associate

Beautiful Blogger? All right then!

2010-06-20T20:11:00.000-04:00

I'm super flattered that Juliettia (who likes sex and video games, which proves she is awesome) passed on this "beautiful blogger" award to me. The rules of the game are: Give this award to 3 other persons. Name 7 things your readers may not know about you. 1) PinkSexGeek, Gardenvy, and OutspokenClitic, I choose you. As for 7 things readers may not know about me: 1) I am the least photogenic

Coming to terms with BDSM

2010-06-20T18:05:00.001-04:00

I've changed sites. Click here to read this post at elodieonlove.com. The other day I was talking about sexuality, BDSM in particular, with someone who was pretty freaked out about it. She voiced a common opinion: "I guess it's okay so long as it's consensual, but liking pain can't be healthy." She meant "healthy" psychologically. I've discovered rather recently that I myself like pain in a

Pink Unity Lubricant Review for Fascinations

2010-06-18T10:48:00.001-04:00

I have moved sites. Click here to read this review at elodieonlove.com. Lubricant is a simple product, but one that many people sadly never think about using. I don't use it every time, but I go through enough that I was all too happy to review Pink Unity for Fascinations. Unfortunately, K and I won't be using this lubricant again even if we run out of our other lubricants and there's a

Beautiful men

2010-06-17T12:13:00.002-04:00

I have changed sites. Click here to read this post at elodieonlove.com. After having been in the sex blogging community for a little while, something that only bothered me a bit at first has started to seriously grate. There are pictures everywhere in the sex-positive community of lovely women of many sizes, and in many positions. Not of many ages, nor of many colors -- a big problem -- but

2010-06-17T09:56:00.001-04:00

via Viviennui Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. For updates and information follow our RSS Feed and Twitter. Did you miss Pleasurists #81? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #83? Be sure to read our submission guidelines and then use our submission form and submit it before Sunday June 20th

Babeland Review: Pirates Pendant Vibe

2010-06-14T14:28:00.002-04:00

I have moved sites. Click here to read my Pirates Pendant Vibe review for Babeland at elodieonlove.com. You can have Johnny Depp. My favorite pirate is Kevin Kline in Gilbert and Sullivan's The Pirates of Penzance. I hoped that the Pirates Pendant Vibe which Babeland sent me to review would make me feel like a Pirate Queen. Alas, it was not to be, and I ended up feeling more like a female

Sexually submissive

2010-06-12T21:30:00.001-04:00

I've changed sites. Click here to read this post at elodieonlove.com. Brilliant post title, huh? OK, I suck at titles. But this has been rattling around in my brain for a while, and I can't seem to write anything else until I get it out. Very recently -- within the past month -- I've discovered that I'm sexually submissive. "Discovered" is perhaps the wrong term; it's more like recognizing

Babeland Review: Heart 2 Heart Cuffs

2010-06-10T18:34:00.013-04:00

I've moved sites. Click here to read my Heart 2 Heart Cuffs review for Babeland at elodieonlove.com. K and I only recently got into bondage, and we've been loving it. So when Babeland offered the Heart 2 Heart Cuffs for review, I grabbed them. Made of sturdy and attractive red and black leather, they're a definite upgrade from the cuffs that came with our Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint

Pleasurists #81

2010-06-10T17:19:00.003-04:00

Sugarlight via ModelMayhem Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. For updates and information follow our RSS Feed and Twitter. Did you miss Pleasurists #80? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #82? Be sure to read our submission guidelines and then use our submission form and submit it before

Review: Ophoria Pleasure No. 6 Dildo

2010-06-08T17:42:00.006-04:00

I have changed sites. Click here to read my Ophoria Pleasure No. 6 review for Fascinations at elodieonlove.com. Fascinations was kind enough to send me the Ophoria Pleasure No. 6 dildo by Lover's Choice, Inc. to review. I was out of state when it came last week and K told me a dildo had arrived in the mail for me. "What kind of dildo is it?" I asked. "A purple one," he answered. When we

Epiphora's Woodgasm Contest

2010-06-08T13:46:00.001-04:00

Epiphora is holding a giveaway of awesomeness. See these dildos here? They are gorgeous, they are wood, and they are not cheap, even at SheVibe's good prices. Epiphora has gotten together with SheVibe to give one of these beautiful works of sexually satisfying art to some lucky person. Part of the contest involves Twitter parties, one on Saturday, June 12th, 6 to 7 P.M. for those of us on

An Erotic Vignette - moved

2010-06-07T14:43:00.005-04:00

I have moved to my own domain! To find this story and more erotica, reviews and other stuff by me, please go to elodieonlove. The list of my stories (which will grow) is here, and An Erotic Vignette, the story you're looking for, is here.

Politeness?

2010-06-07T13:29:00.008-04:00

I haven't been keeping up with the sex blogging community this week, since I've been gone. Now I've come back and there's some sort of kerfuffle about a supposed "in crowd", and the people who are accused of being exclusive and cliqueish have ALL been totally awesome, supportive, kind, and did I mention awesome to me? Little nobody me with my brand-new little blog. Sometimes people are popular

I am back!

2010-06-06T22:23:00.001-04:00

The 21-hour train ride ended at about 12:30 today. I've been spending time with K since then, and have discovered that I really like being on the receiving end of a flogger. A lot. This is somewhat surprising to me. Anyway, I have a few reviews to post this week, once I have decompressed.

Going on a trip

2010-05-28T15:13:00.002-04:00

I'm going to be gone until June 6th. I'll still be checking my e-mail, so catch me there. See y'all in about a week!

On being a feminist who loves men

2010-05-27T22:31:00.002-04:00

I've changed sites. Click here to read this post at elodieonlove.com. A woman is treated poorly by a man, or her relationship with a man doesn't work out the way she wants, or she learns about a man or men doing something horrific, usually to women or children. There are a few different ways women commonly go with this. One is to say that men are awful, violent, disrespectful, terrible,

Marzipan reviews Sportsheets' Under the Bed Restraint System

2010-05-22T22:08:00.006-04:00

I've changed sites. Click here to read my Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System review at elodieonlove.com. Hi, this is Marzipan. (That's my picture to the left.) I'm the head of the household Elodie lives in. I recently got a new toy I want to tell you about: the Under the Bed Restraint System from Sportsheets. I had my humans set it up right away. They said they found it very easy, and

Self-Love: Own Your Body

2010-05-21T19:31:00.001-04:00

I've changed sites. Click here to read this post at elodieonlove.com. I went to lunch with my mother today, and she said she wonders what "middle-aged female academics" (which most of her friends are) could get from sex toys. Then she answered her own question: "I suppose if they want to spice things up." Very true, but it doesn't go to the heart of the matter. We have been told, since we were

Review: Tantus Compact

2010-05-19T17:34:00.007-04:00

I've changed sites. Click here to read my Tantus Compact review at elodieonlove.com. The Tantus Compact is my favorite sex toy. I'm tempted to just write, "go get this right now, you want it," but of course, I don't know that you'll love it like I do. We're all different. So here's the rundown: Like all Tantus toys, the Compact is made of 100% body-safe silicone. It's got a small, 1 1/2 inch

Optimus Prime's Penis?

2010-05-18T21:13:00.000-04:00

I recently got a Happy Valley Perk, in silver. Because it is silver, my boyfriend calls it Optimus Prime's penis. While I think Optimus Prime might have a penis made of silicone, I think his would be bigger. Also, it would transform into at least one other thing. It would possibly be the swiss army knife of penii. What do y'all think a Transformer/robot penis would look and act like?

Emotion

2010-05-17T20:03:00.006-04:00

I have changed sites. Click here to read this post at elodieonlove.com. Every woman knows what it's like to be accused of emotionalism during an argument. Whether the person with whom you disagree claims you're "on the rag", that you're "an angry girl", that you're "overly emotional", "not logical", "overreacting", "humorless" -- we all have plenty of examples. It's an age-old tactic to

The Princess and the Pea

2010-05-16T19:41:00.003-04:00

I've changed sites. Click here to read this post at elodieonlove.com. Once upon a time, there was a prince who would marry only a real princess. One night, a young woman came to the door during a storm, looking for shelter. The prince's mother put a pea under twenty mattresses and invited her to sleep on them. When asked the next morning how she had slept, the young woman answered, "terribly,

Marzipan and Reyna cuddles

2010-05-16T18:53:00.001-04:00

Marzipan is the brown and white primary cat, aka Empress of All She Surveys. Reyna is the calico secondary cat, the one who is inflicting the cuddles.

AdultSexToys.com shopping spree contest

2010-05-16T17:16:00.000-04:00

AdultSexToys.com is holding a contest to win $300 worth of sex toys. I've just started collecting sex toys, and could easily spend way more than $300 on them if I could afford to! So here's my wishlist/entry: Vixen Spur - $77 Tantus Acute - $30.15 Fun Factory Layaspot - $57.53 California Exotics Platinum Butterfly Kiss - $18.10 Divinity Blindfold - $18.10 Lelo Liv, lime green - $105.60

Hi

2010-05-15T21:17:00.001-04:00

So, here I am on Blogger. I'm trying to figure out what to put in the "about me" section. I asked my boyfriend and he said I should just write "I'm hot." <3 Thanks hon, but not terribly helpful! I plan to talk about all sorts of stuff here. Mostly sex, romance, toys, and other things I love -- like our two cats, of course. Oh, and the aforementioned boyfriend, K.